- February 4, 2025
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It was a somber evening of healing and commemoration on Thursday, Sept. 27, as grieving family members and survivors remembered loved ones who have died as a result of homicide and other tragedies during Halifax Health's National Day of Remembrance program.
Photos were hung on a board in the side of the room, twinkle lights illuminating the faces of people who are no longer with us. Handwritten phrases like "Gone too soon," "Never Forgotten" and "I miss you" framed their smiling faces. During the program, which was a collaboration with the Victims’ Services Coalition of the 7th Judicial Circuit, names were read — names of the Pulse massacre victims and fallen law enforcement officers, including two K-9s.
“I don’t know of any words that I can say that can ease that pain, but I can tell you from a law enforcement perspective that when a victim of a crime comes to us, we do everything humanely possible to bring closure," Volusia County Sheriff Mike Chitwood said. "Impossible, but we try.”
State Attorney R.J. Larizza was the keynote speaker of the night. He told the story of being at home with his six-year-old granddaughter when the news reflected a seven-year-old girl in Duval County had died after a shooting.
He said his granddaughter looked at him and asked what happened.
“What happened?" LaRizza said. "Two words that you think a lot of the times would be easy to answer, but it wasn’t.”
It's a question many in the room have had to face, he said. This issue has become personal to him through the years, due to the many families of victims he has met and the friends he has made who have lost someone to suicide or another tragedy.
“I can’t protect [my granddaughter] from life," LaRizza said. "I can’t protect her from the bad things that are going to happen, but what I can do is help prepare her.”
The attendees of the program placed white roses in ceremonial wreaths as Jim Sawgrass played a solemn tune on his flute. The wreaths were paddled out to sea as loved ones gathered on the beach and watched them disappear beneath the waves.